To Tell or Not Tell Your Ex: The Big Dating Status Dilemma

Reasons to tell

Letting your ex know you are back in the swing can serve you well if you separated in peaceful terms. In case you managed to salvage your friendship, then your partner may provide helpful insight on how to set up an attractive profile. Unlike your friends, they also mention some flaws in your attitude that should be ironed out before the next date. As we mentioned, dropping the intel is also a childish revenge, but it also informs the person that you are alright, and both of you should move on. Lastly, regard this act as a safety measure. Just imagine yourself searching the list of attractive singles, and suddenly the profile of your ex pops up. Awkward… Such nasty surprises can be avoided with some honesty.

Reasons to not tell

We also have a laundry list of reasons why you should never ever let your ex catch on with the fact you are dating online. They can ridicule you over the idea (even though they might as well do it). It’s also possible that they make a big jealous scene, as they can’t stand the thought you are happy and have your mind set on finding love again. Speaking of petty revenge, your ex might attempt to strike back by using a fake profile, or asking one of their friends to trick you and break your heart. But no matter what, it’s important to break it off in a civilized way, otherwise you only ridicule yourself. The communication should be about the possibilities of a better new relationship.