Starting to Date Again After a Breakup

Try a new experience

Yes, you heard it right. Online dating can be the cure for your problems. You don’t need to leave the safety of your home, but you can contact people via chat. And the best thing is: it’s up to you how much personal information you share and the pace of the development is also up to you. It’s possible to take smaller steps, and just chat a little bit with likeminded people. Small talk like this can improve your self-esteem and give you courage to open up. Plus, it dusts off your communication skills.

When someone is too focused on stepping up the game by having a real life encounter, just tell this person that you aren’t ready, and take things easier with this person. You can always take a step back, take a break, and relax, before making any decisions. And a last thing: there are countless dating sites catering especially for mature singles or divorcees. Joining their circles means that you’ll meet people who went through the same things as you.

Just looking for friends

In case you still feel intimidated from the idea of finding love again online, that’s okay too. It’s not necessary to have actual face-to-face dates to grow a fulfilling friendship or relationship. Take smaller steps, and register on a dating site to find friends or just to have everyday conversations. This may sound weird at first, but believe us; many people find their non-romantic soulmates on these sites. Many dating networks provide means for you to express your thoughts and expectations via your profile description or personal blog. Naturally, others can read these, and share their opinion. Who knows, maybe blogging the sadness out of your heart is the best way to deal with a break up.

Those who are unsure about their exact goals should mention this on their profile. Just submit a brief explanation on your current state in the “About Me” section, and people will know that you just want to hear each other out.